In a move that’s sparked controversy, dozens of kindergartens and childcare centres across Melbourne are set to ditch traditional Mother’s and Father’s Day celebrations.
Instead, they’ll be introducing “Family Day” celebrations to promote inclusivity.
What’s Behind the Change?
Early Child Management Services (ECMS), which operates 69 kindergartens and childcare centres, announced the switch in an email to parents at St Helena Preschool in Eltham North.
The news came as a surprise to many, who felt they were not consulted about the change.
A More Inclusive Approach
According to ECMS chief executive Kieran Kearney, the move is about recognizing that family means different things to different people and communities. “This is recognizing that family means different things to different people and different communities,” Kearney said. “It can be difficult for some people to accept that change.”
What Do Parents Think?
The reaction from parents has been mixed. While some have expressed disappointment and even outrage on social media, others have welcomed the change. One parent described the move as “ridiculous,” while another asked, “What could be more inclusive than excluding 97 per cent of the population?”
The Defenders
However, not everyone is against the change. One working parent said they would be fine with the new approach, as it would be more inclusive of their household.
The Wider Context
This isn’t the first time childcare centres have replaced traditional Mother’s and Father’s Day celebrations with more inclusive alternatives. Last year, several centres hosted events that used non-gendered language, following advice from Early Childhood Australia, an advocacy group that promotes inclusive practices.
Official Advice
Early Childhood Australia encourages education organizations to be more inclusive in their celebrations, highlighting that traditional Mother’s and Father’s Day events can be “tricky for children from diverse families.” Instead, they suggest focusing on all the loving relationships a child has, rather than specific relationships.
Consultation is Key
The organization also emphasizes the importance of consulting with families themselves. Their guide states, “Asking families how they would like their child to celebrate the day is a great place to start. And then use their words when talking about their families. Ask parents and children for direction and follow their lead.”
A Balance Between Inclusion and Tradition
The debate raises important questions about how to strike a balance between promoting inclusivity and preserving traditional celebrations. While some argue that inclusive language and celebrations are essential for recognizing diverse families, others feel that this approach waters down the significance of Mother’s and Father’s Day.
What Do You Think?
Should kindergartens and childcare centres prioritize inclusivity over tradition, or is there a way to balance both? Share your thoughts in the comments below!