It’s no secret that dating can be a minefield, but some men are taking things to a whole new level.
They’re coming up with bizarre tests to figure out if a woman is really into them, or just after their money. And let’s be real, it’s just plain creepy.
The $100 Test
One woman shared her crazy experience on Reddit, where she went on a date with a guy who seemed normal… until the check came.
He handed her the bill and asked her to pay, even though the total was over $100.
She didn’t mind splitting the cost, but things took a weird turn when he revealed it was all a test.
He wanted to see if she was a “gold digger” or not. Um, what? The woman called him out, saying she wasn’t going to be treated like she was guilty until proven innocent.
The Lie Detector Test
Another woman shared a similar story, where her date claimed to be a carpenter, but later admitted it was all a lie. He wanted to test her reaction to his “low-paying job”.
Reddit commenters were having none of it, calling him out for being dishonest and classist.
Newsflash: trades like carpentry can be super lucrative, so maybe he was just trying to hide his own insecurities.
The Red Flags Are Real
These “tests” are just a projection of the guy’s own issues. If someone is trying to trick or manipulate you on a date, it’s a major red flag.
And let’s be real, who starts a relationship by lying to the other person? It’s not a great way to build trust, that’s for sure.
Women Are Calling Out the BS
The good news is that women are speaking out against these weird tests.
They’re pointing out that it’s not clever or cute, it’s just plain disrespectful.
If someone is making you prove yourself before the appetizers are even cleared, it’s time to reevaluate the date.
Remember, you deserve someone who respects and trusts you, not someone who’s trying to manipulate you.
The Bottom Line
So, to all the guys out there who think they’re being clever with their “tests”, let this be a warning: it’s not going to fly.
Women are smarter than that, and they can see right through your BS.
Just be honest, respectful, and genuine, and you might actually get somewhere.
But if you’re going to try to manipulate or trick someone, you’re probably going to end up alone.