As her friends start having babies, Madalin Giorgetta, a 33-year-old Instagram influencer from Perth, is often asked when she’ll join the motherhood club.
But her answer always shocks everyone: “We’re not having children.”
The Viral Blog Post That Sparked a Conversation
In a viral blog post, Madalin explained why she and her husband, Sid, have made the conscious decision not to become parents. The post has sparked a heated conversation, with many people expressing disappointment and disbelief at her choice.
Why Madalin Loves Kids but Doesn’t Want to Be a Mom
Despite loving kids and being fascinated by their curiosity and sense of wonder, Madalin has plenty of reasons not to have children. For one, she cherishes her “spontaneity” and “guilt-free irresponsibility and disregard for structure.” She loves waking up without a plan and being able to do whatever she wants, whenever she wants.
The Pressure to Conform
Madalin and Sid, a school teacher, both adore kids, which is why many people can’t understand why they’ve chosen not to start a family. But Madalin is adamant that she doesn’t need to have children to experience unconditional love. She believes that love is for everyone, not just parents and children.
The Backlash: Dealing with Criticism and Judgment
As her post went viral, Madalin faced backlash from commenters who called her a narcissist, selfish, and arrogant. But she hit back, saying that her choice to be childfree is not criticizing parents, but rather a personal decision that has nothing to do with anyone else.
Embracing the Freedom to Choose
Madalin hopes that her decision will inspire others to critically examine their own lives, form their own opinions, and make decisions that are right for them, not based on societal pressure or expectations.
Living Life on Her Own Terms
Madalin’s story is a reminder that there’s no one-size-fits-all approach to life. We all have the freedom to choose our own path, and Madalin is choosing to live life on her own terms, without apologies.