If you thought being beautiful was all it’s cracked up to be, think again.
Influencer Marina Smith is learning the hard way that being too attractive can be a major turn-off – at least when it comes to her friends.
The Christmas Ban: A Story of “Pretty Privilege”
The 34-year-old Brazilian beauty, who was once crowned Miss Bumbum, claims her friends have banned her from their annual Christmas dinner because they think she’s too hot. Yep, you read that right. Apparently, her stunning looks are just too distracting for their partners.
“I’ve been banned from Christmas dinner because the women think I’ll steal their men,” Marina explained. “They’re worried that I might tempt their husbands and boyfriends.”
The Downsides of Being Exceptionally Attractive
It’s not the first time Marina has spent Christmas alone, but this time it feels different. She broke up with her ex because he wanted to split bills too much (yes, really), so she’s used to being solo on Christmas Day. However, being excluded by her friends takes it to a whole new level.
“Being single already limits my outings and trips with friends because they go out with their partners now,” she said. “But now, being single and beautiful has become an insecurity for them!”
The WhatsApp Group That Changed Everything
Marina found out about the snub when one of her friends’ boyfriends let it slip that a WhatsApp group had been created – and she wasn’t invited. The group was discussing their concerns about her presence at the dinner, and some even considered not inviting her because of her beauty and single status.
A History of Being Left Out
Marina thinks her friends are jealous and insecure, and it’s not the first time she’s been left out because of her looks. “I dress to feel good, not to attract other people’s partners,” she insisted. “The problem isn’t with me; it’s with the men who think I am ‘too beautiful to be real.'”
No Apologies for Being Beautiful
Despite the situation, Marina is grateful to know in advance that she won’t be included. “I think I would feel out of place, so I’m glad to know this now rather than the day before Christmas.”
If her friends decide to invite her later, she said she would still decline and confront them about their lack of confidence in her. “I used to trust my friends blindly, but apparently, they didn’t trust me. It’s a shame because they’re going to lose the best friend they could have had.”
A Lesson in Self-Worth
Marina’s story highlights the concept of “pretty privilege,” where attractive people receive certain advantages because of their looks. However, it also shows that being exceptionally attractive can have its downsides – especially when it comes to relationships and friendships.
As Marina puts it, “I never made advances toward their partners. I’m a respectful woman, especially concerning their relationships. I think it was jealousy on their part. At this point, I’d rather spend Christmas alone at home.”